As someone who has always signed her emails"In Christ,Nicole"I thoughtthis post by Stephen Altroggewas hilarious.See y'all Monday!Nicole for my mom and sisters
(While we wait for the phone to ring,I thought I'd tell you how we got here.)
"Having babies—it's just not Nicole's gift."That was our family friend,Kimm Harvey's opinion,delivered affectionately in her unmistakable Philly accent.She and my mom were talking after my second difficult delivery,这不是和第一个一样糟糕,but still,um,well,memorable.Let's leave it at that.
Another dear friend told his wife that he would personally contribute to our adoption fund if only I would agree to not have any more children.(I think I need to let him know I'm ready to take him up on his offer.)
When Steve and I visited a specialist 18luck外围投注about a year after Tori's birth to discuss the possibility of me having more children,the first words out of his mouth were,"Have you considered a surrogate mother?"Uh,no.Definitely not.
"You won't die from childbirth"the doctor told us,but"you'‘ll have to be prepared for things to be a little crazy at the end.""
After lots of praying and counsel-seeking,we thought we were prepared.We decided to go ahead and try for another child.Maybe we were crazy.
We don't have a conviction from Scripture 18luck外围投注about how many children a couple should have,but we do have a conviction that God loves families and works through families to build his church.And out of that conviction,and our own experience in wonderful,gospel-loving families,our desire for more children remained strong.
But months went by and I didn't get pregnant.
So 18luck外围投注about a year ago,I asked Steve if we could rethink and pray over our decision again.He was more than willing,always being more anxious 18luck外围投注about my health than I was.
It was a difficult decision.There is no chapter and verse in the Bible that tells you how many children to have;it's a wisdom issue.And boy did we need God's wisdom!In the end,it came down to the question:"How can I best serve God's kingdom?"And for me,the answer was to care first for my existing family by not putting my short or long-term health at risk.
But our desire for children remained strong,so we began to talk 18luck外围投注about adoption.
To be continued….
"As women,clothing and appearance are some of the most powerful and important means we have of sending a message 18luck外围投注about our hearts and our values.So here's the question.What do your clothes and your appearance communicate 18luck外围投注about you?What message are you sending?Unfortunately,this issue represents an area where too many Christian women have accepted the secular world's way of thinking,with the rationalization that ‘Maybe it's okay so long as we just don't go to the farthest extremes.' That's why we have to go back to the Word of God and ask,‘What is God's way of thinking 18luck外围投注about all this?What message should we be sending?And how can we send that message with our clothing and with our outer appearance?'""南希·利苔藓
For more on modesty from Nancy check out:
Caution!Your Clothes are Talking
Philosophies of Beauty in Conflict
HT: Tony Reinke
A retweet of sorts.Last weekJohn Pipertweeted"Teaching your eight-year-old daughter how to dress is not legalism.Modesty inbred preempts legalism."He also linked to a provocativeCNN.com articleby a dad who challenges parents to take responsibility for the way their little girls dress.
To help you (and your daughters) preempt legalism and cultivate biblical convictions 18luck外围投注about modesty,we wrote a series a few years ago calledFashion and Following the Savior.We wanted to show that modesty isn't an out-of-fashion,man-made rule but an essential quality for all women for all 新利18luckIM电竞牛time who"profess godliness"(1 Tim 2:9-10).
And even if you think you've heard it all before,the virtue of modesty needs repeating,reminding,retweeting.For we so easily forget the loveliness of a modest heart and the refreshing beauty of modest dress.
"Easter is over"writesStephen Nichols,but"Being faithful in the routines,on the Mondays after the Sundays,is important.It is as inversely important as it seems unglamorous.""
Never is it harder to be faithful in the ordinary than on the days following a holiday or special event.That's why there's no more important 新利18luckIM电竞牛time to remind ourselves why we do what we do.
For a fresh reminder,I'd encourage you to readStephen Nichols' entire postas well as one by南希·威尔逊along the same lines.We've linked to these before,but they're worth a yearly re-read.
In"Abounding Works""Nancy rejoices that"The good news continues to be good news from one morning to the next.So,even though I'm mopping up from the feasting,the rejoicing extends from one Sunday to the next,all year long.""
Let the joy of Easter Sunday break into your unglamorous Monday.Allow Christ's death and resurrection to fill you with transcendent joy on this ordinary day.